In K. Michelle’s hit song “Can’t Raise a Man” she tells it all. She is absolutely right when she says, “You can’t raise a man”– well in our case boys. Because we are only teenage girls, we are not dealing with men yet, but that doesn’t mean men don’t act the same as boys. Guys will never change in mind; only in age and dealing with them can be tricky. Steve Harvey has written a book called ” Act Like a Lady, but Think Like a Man,” but do we really listen to his words? As young female adults, we should listen to what other guys have to say about us because what other way to know a guy is by taking advice from another man. Steve Harvey tells his female readers that guys will say anything to get what they want, and he is right. Ladies, we must pay attention to what these males are saying to us and make sure what they are saying to us is real. Girls tend to fall in love easier than boys do, and lose their selves when they fall in love. We as females have to be careful who we have sex with and be sure it is not for all the wrong reasons.
Being in love is a great emotion. It is the best feeling in the world to know that someone loves you back. Just as easy as it is to fall in love, it is just as easy to say three simple words– I love you. This sentence is what makes girls go head over heels for, and we go crazy if guys say it first. Be careful what your partner says because it can be all talk. Everybody has heard of the saying, “actions speaks louder than words,” well use it! If his actions don’t match his words, than don’t believe him. Guys will lie to your face just to get what they want whether it is money, sneakers, or sex– they will lie. Overall, being in love will make you the happiest person, but it will also hurt you if you say it to the wrong person.